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9 Bible Verses About Family - Creating a Peaceful Haven

In this ever-changing and challenging world, a harmonious family serves as our peaceful haven. However, establishing a harmonious family requires addressing issues such as how spouses interact, honoring parents, and raising children. If you’re interested in learning more, please read on!

1. “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him(Genesis 2:18).

From this statement of God, we can perceive His care and concern for humanity. God understands that living a lonely and monotonous life without companionship can be dull, so He designed a spouse, a partner who can provide assistance, support, and companionship. This is the origin of human marriage. It can be said that human marriage is ordained by God and carries a special purpose. It is not only meant to alleviate human loneliness or for procreation but also to mutually support and face the joys and challenges of life together on the journey of life. God says, “‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.’ These words are saying two things. First, God saw that this man was too lonely being alone, without a partner, without someone to talk to, or a companion to share his happiness and thoughts with; He saw that his life would be dry, insipid, and uninteresting, so a thought occurred to Him: One man is a little lonely, so I must make a partner for him. This partner will be his spouse, who will accompany him everywhere and help him do everything; she will be his partner and spouse. The purpose of a partner is to accompany him through life, to walk onward together with him on the path of his life. Whether for ten, twenty, a hundred, or two hundred years, this partner will be the one at his side, the one with him everywhere, who will speak with him, share in happiness, pain, and every emotion with him, and at the same time, accompany him and keep him from being alone or lonely. These thoughts and ideas arising in the mind of God are the circumstances of the source of human marriage(The Word, Vol. 6. On the Pursuit of the Truth I. How to Pursue the Truth (9)).

Friend, since we now understand the background of marriage, we should obey God’s arrangement and approach marriage with the proper mindset. This includes caring for, accompanying, and assisting our partners, fostering a deep and affectionate love, as we journey through life together hand in hand.

2. “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife: and they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24).

This verse expresses the perfect design of marriage and family created by God. When a person gets married, they leave their parents, signifying the establishment of a new family. However, this leaving does not imply cutting off ties with parents but rather emphasizes the close bond between spouses. This union is not merely physical but also a soulful and emotional connection. Its purpose is for husband and wife to love, cherish, respect, and support each other, sharing the responsibilities of life, and experiencing joys and sorrows together. They create a shared life, common goals, and jointly fulfill the responsibilities and missions assigned to them by God in their marriage. God says, “The true meaning of marriage is not just for the multiplication of the human race, but more importantly, it is for God to arrange a partner for each man and woman, who will accompany them through each time of their life, whether difficult and painful, or easy, joyful, and happy—in it all, they have someone to confide in, to be one with them in heart and mind, and to share in their sorrow, pain, happiness, and joy. This is the meaning behind God arranging marriage for people, and it is the subjective need of each individual person. When God created mankind, He did not want them to be lonely, so He arranged marriage for them. In marriage, men and women each take on different roles, and the most important thing is that they accompany and support one another, living each day well, moving well along the road of life. For one, they can accompany each other, and for another, they can support each other—this is the meaning of marriage and the necessity for its existence. Of course, it is also the understanding and attitude people ought to have toward marriage, and it is the responsibility and obligation they ought to fulfill toward marriage(The Word, Vol. 6. On the Pursuit of the Truth I. How to Pursue the Truth (9)).

Friend, since we now understand the mission and significance of marriage, we should let go of unrealistic expectations and reduce resentment towards our marriage. Instead, we should strive to become life companions to each other, characterized by love, understanding, and support.

3. “See, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward” (Psalm 127:3).

In our journey of life, we are blessed with a precious inheritance from God - our children. They are an endless expression of God’s love towards us as parents. Each baby growing in a mother’s womb is a masterpiece of God, a miraculous journey gifted by Him. The formation of a little life within a mother’s body until the moment of birth is not a coincidence but a special blessing from God to every parent. It is a precious gift and part of God’s plan. As we witness our children grow, learn to walk, talk, and think, we can truly experience God’s care during our journey of life. However, we also have a responsibility and must make efforts for our children. God entrusts them to us, expecting us to guide them towards the right path with love, patience, and care. We need to be role models, imparting them with the correct values and beliefs, so that they may be strong, loving, and hopeful on their journey through life.

Friend, children are an inheritance from God. May we approach this precious gift with gratitude and responsibility. Let us feel God’s deep love and grace through educating, caring for, and accompanying them, becoming indispensable guides in their lives.

4. “Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them” (Colossians 3:19).

This short verse contains profound teachings on marital relationships, revealing a marriage concept filled with love and respect. Love is the cornerstone of a husband and wife relationship, but it is not merely an emotional impulse; it is a love based on the foundation of God’s love, characterized by mutual devotion, support, and respect. When a husband cherishes his wife with genuine love, the marital bond becomes strong and enduring. Love means caring for each other’s needs and accepting each other’s shortcomings. Nurtured by love, the understanding between husband and wife continues to grow. However, this verse goes further by warning husbands not to treat their wives harshly. Harsh treatment encompasses not only physical harm but also verbal and emotional harm. Speaking kindly to one another is an important aspect of building a healthy marriage. Couples should face challenges hand in hand, care for each other, share the responsibilities of life, and establish a home filled with love and respect.

Friends, may each couple be inspired by this verse to carefully cultivate their marriage, walking together on the path of mutual support and companionship, making marriage a source of happiness and the most beautiful gift in our lives.

5. “Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband does safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil” (Proverbs 31:10–11).

This passage depicts a woman filled with virtues, wisdom, and love, whose worth surpasses all earthly treasures. The character, wisdom, and compassion exhibited by a woman who possesses both inner and outer beauty are invaluable. Her beauty doesn’t solely reside in her appearance but also emanates from her inner radiance. When one has God in their heart and the word of God as their life, they radiate an inner glow, which is their most precious attribute. Her husband confidently relies on this virtuous woman because he knows she is a dependable and wise companion. Within this understanding and trust, the family finds stability, and happiness blossoms between them. This passage prompts us to ponder: In our lives, do we pursue the truth of God, cherish, and nurture inner virtues? Are we becoming the person that our family relies on and trusts?

Friends, on the stage of life, may we strive to pursue the truth of God, allowing the truth to transform into inner virtues, wisdom, and character within us. Let us radiate an invaluable brilliance akin to pearls, becoming irreplaceable treasures in our families, society, and throughout our entire lives.

6. “Honor your father and your mother: that your days may be long on the land which the LORD your God gives you(Exodus 20:12).

The teachings in this passage are profound and valuable, revealing the intimate connection between honoring parents and a long-lasting life. Honoring parents is not merely a moral standard; it’s a virtue of human nature and, more importantly, a responsibility and duty. Through respecting our parents, we learn to appreciate their nurturing grace, feel the warmth and strength of family relationships, and also shoulder responsibility for our families in life. Such an attitude brings inner peace and steadfastness, making our days more enduring on the land bestowed by God. However, the longevity of life doesn’t solely refer to the extension of years but rather signifies a state of mental tranquility and richness in life. Honoring parents helps foster harmonious family relationships, and create a harmonious and peaceful home environment. In such an atmosphere, we can better experience both giving and receiving love. More importantly, honoring parents is an expression of faith. We honor our parents not only to repay their nurturing kindness but also to obey God’s commandments. In this process, we revere God, acknowledging Him as the sovereign and bestower of blessings in our lives. Therefore, honoring parents is part of our relationship with God; it is a testament to our faith life. It is a tribute to those parents who exhibit good character, supporting us on the path of faith in God, constantly encouraging us to know and fear God. However, when it comes to parents who hate God, oppose Him, and vehemently obstruct our path of faith in God, we need to handle the situation differently.

Friends, in this ever-changing and challenging world, may we always carry a heart filled with gratitude. Through actions that honor our parents, may our days be made enduring on the land given by God, thus achieving a life journey rich in warmth and blessings.

7. “The curse of the LORD is in the house of the wicked: but he blesses the habitation of the just” (Proverbs 3:33).

This passage deeply describes how God deals with righteous and wicked households, while also indicating a path towards blessings for us. God’s cursing of the homes of evildoers isn’t a result of cruelty but rather a reaction to their wicked actions, aiming to teach people about the consequences of wrongdoing. The houses of the wicked are filled with strife and injustice because they deny God, resist Him, and harbor hatred towards Him. However, the habitation of the just is a place blessed and looked after by God. This doesn’t merely signify material abundance but also harmony and love among family members. In the home of the righteous, the fear of God permeates every aspect of life, making it a true haven. Here, love and care act as the binding forces of the family, and reverence for God and obedience to Him are guiding principles in life.

Friends, may we examine our lives, ponder the paths we choose, and contemplate whether we pursue righteousness. Do we hold reverence for God? Are we establishing a solid foundation for our families based on God’s love? As we walk on the path of righteousness, our homes become places under God’s care and blessing.

8. “Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband” (1 Corinthians 7:2).

This passage conveys the purity and dignity of marriage, teaching us to maintain the purity of the marital relationship between spouses. God has ordained marriage for us, intending for both partners to support, respect, care for each other within a devout and committed relationship, aiming to build a spiritual and strong family together. It is a sacred space established by God, involving complete dedication of emotions, bodies, and souls. Each man has his own wife, and each woman has her own husband, emphasizing the uniqueness and exclusivity of marriage. This isn’t a restriction on individual freedom but a safeguarding of the purity of marriage. Both spouses are encouraged to maintain purity within marriage, avoiding indulgence in sexual immorality. Through a pure marriage, we experience the perfect sexual relationship designed by God ; it’s a pure and beautiful experience. It’s also an expression of reverence for God and respect for marriage.

Friends, may we value the dignity of marriage, and through God’s grace and guidance, establish a solid and fulfilling marriage. This way, we can better understand God’s love and experience His blessings more deeply upon our pure marriage.

9. “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6).

This brief yet profound statement underscores the power of nurturing and the responsibility of guiding children onto the right path. Raising children is not just a responsibility but also a task bestowed upon us by God. It’s not just about the present; it profoundly impacts the entire course of their lives. Proper upbringing lays a solid foundation for a child’s entire life. It’s like planting a seed that, in the right environment, takes root, sprouts, and grows strong. Therefore, in the process of nurturing, we need to impart not only useful knowledge but also subtly guide them towards the right path. This requires us to nurture them in line with God’s will, making them gain knowledge of God through His truth, and understand His love, and guidance. Even if we cannot be by their side all the time, they can find the right direction within God’s truth and grace. However, nurturing children isn’t an instant process; it requires patience, care, and our own pursuit. We need to understand God’s intentions in His words, make His words the principles of our conduct and actions, so that we can become examples for our children. It’s through love, compassion, and God’s words that we guide them, enabling them to walk in God’s path throughout their lives.

Friends, may we, on the journey of nurturing children, sow the seeds of goodness in their hearts using God’s truth, love, and wisdom. May they grow within the word of God and never stray from His path throughout their lives.

Conclusion

In this rapidly changing world, a harmonious family stands as our tranquil haven. The formation of a family is not just the union of two individuals but also a blessing bestowed upon us by God. Establishing a harmonious family requires us to cultivate marital relationships with love and patience. In God’s love and truth, we find each other’s worth and uniqueness, learning to be tolerant, respecting one another, sharing responsibilities, and treating each other with gratitude. Through prayer and reflecting on God’s words, we allow God’s love to permeate within our homes. Moreover, nurturing children is an indispensable responsibility in maintaining family relationships, a mission given to us by God. With God’s guidance, we can become guides to our children’s spiritual lives. Teaching them God’s truths can help them establish a solid foundation of faith, enabling them to grow in God’s path.

Friends, may we collectively seek God’s truth, and engrave His words in our hearts, making them a guide for our lives. Under the guidance of God’s truth and grace, let us use love, patience, and faith to uphold the goodness of our families. If you wish to learn more about truths regarding marriage and family, please feel free to contact us through the online chat window at the bottom of our website. We will be happy to share God’s words and have online discussions with you.

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